Pollution? Solution?

Air, water, land pollution control are we talking about? Really?

Whatever may be the issue, be it crime, eve teasing, pollution whatever!!! Where does it start?

Unless we heal/ uproot the root cause we can never say it’s a solution.

Treating symptoms give temporary relief but doesn’t deliver the most wanted cure.

Latent tendencies a human is born with, his/her family habits inc. food and language, media that he/ she is exposed to, friends he/ she hangout with, peer pressure and the pain and pleasure one goes through setup his/her behaviour.

Thus what is the need of the hour is to reduce intellectual and emotional pollution.

Intelligence misused in emotions like sadness, regret, guilt, fear, anger, greed, jealousy and lust is the reason for all problems.

Hunting, deforestation and crime against humans or wild life or earth are all due to no compassion.

Kindling compassion looks need of the hour.

Stress is the biggest culprit, stress elimination is the best solution.

Students need to be educated in values like friendliness, compassion and sharing well before the media, lifestyle and mob mentality takes over their minds.

Bottom line is tackle emotional and intellectual pollution and all other problems will be solved. Create an environment for young minds which is pure, positive and unadulterated.

P.S. It’s not that I am perfect and I am offering a suggestion. After going through too much in recent past, these trains of thought came up.

Join hands with me to setup a new beginning towards building a brighter tomorrow…

Let’s Go Make a Difference.

Let’s Go Mad!




Sensitivity is common sense!

Sense is knowing through impulse.. Sense is acquiring input wakefully.. Sense is a thoughtful mind..

Sensitivity is?

I know I have a flower in hand, I know how much pressure it can withstand and I give less pressure than that.

Sensitivity is also the intelligence of input, the way we use our abilities. Like, what and what not to eat/ talk/ do/ see/ hear/ taste/ touch/ memorise?

I lack sensitivity if I lack awareness! For obvious reasons.

Now, hypersensitivity is another problem that today’s parents have, they attend so much to the issue that the attention becomes new issue.

Sensitive is a person who responds to the situation accommodating all points of view. Stepping into the shoe of opposite person.

It’s not that they are perfect, but for asking forgiveness one needs to have sensitivity and selectively choose to reach out to the person and make it happen as peacefully as possible..

When my life is self centred, I can never be sensitive. When, I wasn’t aware, I am not even self-centred so I become insensitive to myself and hurt thyself.

So it’s going in three levels:

1. Lack of awareness : threat to oneself

2. Lack of belongingness : insensitivity and self centredness

3. Sensitivity: comfort to oneself and everyone around

Wonder how many relationships get into fights falling prey for such insensitivity..

Love with sensitivity is the beauty of any relationship..

Everytime you lost awareness and had been insensitive just revert and offer an apology, this can help any relationship initially.. if you think it’s already late, offer them their space and give love and never give explanations.

Explanation or justification is a one-sided argument which can make anyone more insensitive..

I am really surprised at this timely words through me!

Hoping they are useful to you!



Shyamal mila Duniya ko 😃

Bhaagy Khul Gaya papa Ko

Muskaan aa gyi Mumma Ko

Khilona mil gayi didi ko
jis din

Shyamal Mila Duniya Ko

Tarang mil Gaye har Dil Ko

Khubsurti Mili Surat ko

Gham Gujar Gaya Gujarat Ko

Jis din

Shyamal Mila Duniya Ko

Customer aaya salads Ko

Designer aaya kapdonko

Bhakt mil Gaya Sri Sri Ko

Jis din

Shyamal Mila Duniya Ko

Roop mil Gaya Dosti Ko

Chahra mil Gaya natkhat Ko

Pyar mil Gaya Bhagwati khandaan Ko

Jis din

Shyamal Mila Duniya Ko…

Mukti mile Shyamal Ko

Shakti mile Shyamal Ko

Keerti mile Shyamal Ko

Samruddhi mile Shyamal Ko

Mithai mile ham sab Ko 😂😂😂

ISS din

Shyamal Mila Duniya ko

Happy birthday Shyamal ! Continue to be the natural you!



The 3J love!

Have you ever seen the word MOM! The reverse would be WOW! As all mothers are, full form of mom would be ” made out of merry/mercy/moonlight! Like they are the ones we look at everytime we messed up things.. I used they because I have multiple mom’s. Though the mother is one and the best, there are few other women whom I give equal respect and love.

One such is Ramya Rajasekhar.. Embodiment of love and intelligence extremely funny and caring.. In fact one person I crave to be with atleast for a moment! A true guide and an extraordinary trainer.. An artist, a professional singer and micro biologist.. more than anything she is an amazing art of living teacher. It’s almost effortless and endless to describe what she really is..

Her music, her food, her words, her presence , her energy levels, she can refresh you in a million ways.. If u have to learn one thing from her it would be her openmindedness.. 

Third of July is when earth got it’s fav daughter.. I hope you will all join me to wish and bless my mom for even more beautiful and wonderful life ahead..

I love you Ramyamma.. 

 I am very fortunate to have you!

Every memory inspires me to do and be good.

You are mom in the real sense

Thank you so much for everything!

Happy birthday!




All the best to “simplicity”

It was 2007 and I was a hopeless student making blunders with all modern physics experiments, over confident and utter failure. Engineering education was way different from the Sri Chaitanya spoon feeding, knowledge was way different from books and subjects way away from my understanding.. 

In this dilemma and helplessness a helpful Telugu voice was soothing and comparable to Ilayaraja sir’s tune in the middle of a rock concert, Nayana Sri.. 
Fun times, weekend home food, Venu’s blood donation, seva discussions, silly gossips complaints on teachers, goals and group studies this is how the first 4 demisters passed and with some serious lessons learnt. 

Nayana is an extraordinary woman with extreme simplicity wit and stubborn values. She would do anything to help and support her friends and family.. Very traditional in thought and semi modern in looks.. Never really tries to impress anyone, competition yes show off no..

The fact that she has made a group of all our classmates in fb to invite for her wedding itself shows that integrity she could keep in her family.. 

Yes , Nayana Sri is getting married, shower all your blessings wishes,presents and love on the couple..

Happy married life Nayana, any help u need u can always ping me..

Lots of love for both of you


If I am not complete?

Annapurne sada purne
Sankara prana vallabhe
Gyana vyragya sidhyartham
Bhikshaam dehitcha parvati

The prayer before eating food says
Complete nutrition completes everything, gives energy(prana) to the self. To attain knowledge (gyaana) and dispassion (vyragya) give me food as much as I need oo mother devine.

So I eat to get energy, knowledge and dispassion. This completes everything.

Nothing else any material, person or situation can complete u.
You are born absolutely complete, every lack u have is feeling.. Feelings change but by nature you are complete.
Love outside can cause a sense of incompleteness but love for oneself is always complete.
If u are incomplete you are not natural and if you are not natural you crave for attention or get averse to it.
All spiritual journeys started at incompleteness and head towards completeness. Which is our nature.
Attachment cause incompleteness and dispassion gives you completeness.
All demands, expectations and needs give you incompleteness and knowledge gives you completeness.
Desease, feverishness and doubt gives you incompleteness and energy gives you completeness..
Life incomplete can’t be completed by people, things and results. But by energy, dispassion and knowledge.
You don’t have to change people in your life you just have to change your perception. You can save your mind when you are complete from inside.

Restrictions and love..!

A small child is trying to hold something hot something not good for his/her skin, immediately the mother tries to stop. It is left in confusion, mother has an experience of a burn child doesn’t. So it more curious to touch it now. The purpose of mother stopping it from doing a certain restriction was to save a child but if not explained properly it generally leads to the above situation.
When you love someone, you want them to be happy and grow.. Learning happens only with experience. It is really tough not to say .’no’ to your child or anyone whom you love, it’s nothing but a natural tendency to protect your loved ones from physical or emotional trauma. Little experience of pain will stop them from going there, then they need your guidance. Till then have patience.
Restrictions squeeze a person, they can only make the other person feel u are taking their space, limiting them and they will want to experiment the extremes of it.
Today’s teenagers turn ‘No’ face just because they are restricted.
Let life teach them, let love be not just for their protection but for their choices too.
I can’t control my own mind how can I control other’s. If everyone walks in my lines what is the uniqueness of their existence. I know, it is the fear that grips you. It’s natural too, see the positive side that, they really get strong.
They will learn, taking decisions, dealing with tough times and the love and respect for you is protected when given their space.
You don’t need to justify your restrictions if you have already imposed. It’s because of love, care and protection. But that’s destroying the same in the other side.
When I hold sand in my palm I can’t leave it too loose nor can I hold it too tight, both ways I will loose the sand.
I hope u got it.. we need to strike a balance.
Three types of parenting
1. Tamasic parenting
I say no for everything you say or ask
2. Rajasic parenting
I say yes for everything you say or ask
3. Sattvik parenting
I say choose what ever u want just know that I am available to help you and support you.
It’s important that the kids respect their elder one’s experience and elder one’s respect their kid’s intelligence.
Have a happy parenting.
Have a great time with your loved ones.

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